tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23367251.post8265665745379810574..comments2013-08-28T19:58:18.208-06:00Comments on ADVISING MYSELF?: Opposite-Sex Friendships--What do you think?Sandy Schairerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05086279647182531544noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23367251.post-7599343199159921272009-12-04T23:22:52.976-07:002009-12-04T23:22:52.976-07:00To one of my best friends (who happens to be a man...To one of my best friends (who happens to be a man) if you read this...Let's stay friends! I can adjust. Thanks. Love you, (My women friends and I say that to each other, so why not?) Sandy "Joy." Remember don't believe everything you read in blogs. Besides, writers don't really believe everything they write.Sandy Schairerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086279647182531544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23367251.post-61323612655348630662009-12-04T01:45:11.882-07:002009-12-04T01:45:11.882-07:00I went to an intense workshop the weekend before I...I went to an intense workshop the weekend before I came down with that horrible illness that nearly killed me. I figured it was a cleansing and purifying of my body and thereby my psyche and it detoxed my whole body and got rid of everything and pains stored up for eons. I had 2 spinal surgeries and one open heart surgery...so now I have some backbone and I have more capacity for love. It was a divine gift. I am not pollyanna. I am joy. <br /><br />Maybe I can't love unconditionally, but I love the best I can and it's enough. It's good. And real. No hidden crap.Sandy Schairerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086279647182531544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23367251.post-11859624759206956312009-12-04T01:36:36.848-07:002009-12-04T01:36:36.848-07:00This program is cutting off my final paragraph. I...This program is cutting off my final paragraph. I can't figure out why. I just wanted everyone to know this is not based on my life, no one particular that I know, living or dead, and not intended as advice. Take it or leave it. You are on your own, kids, just like I am. ByeSandy Schairerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086279647182531544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23367251.post-63012064117079619722009-12-04T01:34:30.714-07:002009-12-04T01:34:30.714-07:00I am not a cry baby. You broke my heart. You coul...I am not a cry baby. You broke my heart. You could at least give me a couple days to get over it.Sandy Schairerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086279647182531544noreply@blogger.com